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From The Archives | Ten Questions (And So-Called "Answers") About The Writing Life

Imagination is not, as its etymology would suggest, the faculty of forming images of reality; it is rather the faculty of forming images which go beyond reality, which sing reality. ~Gaston Bachelard

From The Archives | Dear Not Enough: You Are Actually More Than Enough, I Promise

Place is a secret force and omnipresent means through which the writer may wield a controlling hand. ~Clint McCown

Write Like A Child Running Down A Hill

🎧 I Don't Intend To Get Out Without A Broken Heart ~Andrea Gibson

From The Archive | Finally On My Way To Yes I Bump Into All The Places Where I Said No To My Life ~ Pesha Gertler

Every character should want something, even if it is only a glass of water. ~Kurt Vonnegut

Dear Grotesque: I Really Debated Whether To Share A Big Photo Of My Face

From The Archives | Dear Scared to Know: Writing About Our Lives *IS* Scary, But Not For The Reasons You Might Think

Inevitably, emotions are inseparable from the idea of good and evil. ~Antonio Damasio, The Feeling of What Happens

How I Grew My Substack from (Almost) Zero to 40K Annual Income in Just 12 Months

How I Grew My Substack from Zero to 40K Annual Income in Just 12 Months

Happy Birthday, Writing in the Dark! Oh, How You've Grown!

From The Archives | Searching for Agates, Not Revising & Believing in Our Future Selves

3 Things: A Baby Bat, A Super Ball Family & A Leap

I Can See A Million Miles From Here

WITD's 12-Week Story Challenge Starts Next Wednesday!

Dear Especially After Breaking: What If You Decide With The Full Force Of Your Own Formidable Wisdom?

It Could Be Weeds In a Vacant Lot

From The Archives: The Surprising Sound of Mary Oliver's Voice

Permission and This Ruse You Call Necessity

Dear Heavy: Here's What Worked For Me in My Darkest Hours

From The Archives | Dear Stuck: What Are We So Afraid Of?

Finally On My Way To Yes I Bump Into All The Places Where I Said No To My Life ~ Pesha Gertler

🎧 An Honest Account: The Art of the Confession

Dear Not Even Close: In The Middle of the Writing, Our Minds Play Tricks On Us

“After nourishment, shelter and companionship, stories are the thing we need most in the world.”― Philip Pullman

From The Archives | Louise Erdrich On Self Doubt, Exhaustion, Motherhood & War

🎧 Saying Grace, David Sedaris & Fudge-Colored Towels

“Ravens taught me to pay attention. The desert taught me to see. Art and artists taught me to see more…and better…and to appreciate, savor, and protect.” ~Linda Durham

Dear Hollow: I Don't Know What It Means To Walk Each Other Home

Writing in the Dark's First 12-Week Story Challenge Starts Soon!

Injured Beavers See Each Other For The First Time and Fall Instantly In Love

The Bruising And The Mending

When They Fight & When They Sing

Dear Too Raw: Yes, You Can Make That Terrible Story Bearable—Here’s How

Creativity is the language we use to communicate the urgency of our dreams for a better future. ~ Audre Lorde

Four Dogs, Maybe Five

Our Animals, Ourselves: A Strange Writing Exercise

From The Archives | The Very Bad Writing Workshop (& What To Do Instead)

This is How Literary Fiction Teaches Us to Be Human

When I Think About The End of the World

Dear Scared to Know: Writing About Our Lives *IS* Scary, But Not For The Reasons You Might Think

From The Archives | To Have, Give All to All, or What It Means to Write (& Live) Generously

The Importance of "Teeth" in the Art of Revision

On Purpose and Zero-Waste Writing—Or, How to Finally Finish A Thing

🎧 The Transformative Power of Finishing Things (& How to Actually Do That)

Dear Rejected: It Can Hurt Like Hell, But Here's How To Press On And Improve Your Odds

Hopelessly Entangled in Stars

Sing Three Short Songs

Dear Curious: Is That Fucked Up?

From The Archives | Ten Questions (And So-Called "Answers") About The Writing Life

Before I was falling, I was flying

Turning Under the Garden, Turning Over the Dresser Drawers

Dear Not Enough: You Are Actually More Than Enough, I Promise

POV, Wingless Bodies, and Uninvited Guests

Dear Lizard Brain: Whatever It Is That Scares You, Write That

How To Be A Writer

Carved By Water

Dear As Long As I Live: As long as you keep secrets and suppress information, you are fundamentally at war with yourself

What My Father Knew

Sliding Fee Slots Available on Two Beautiful Fall Writing Classes

The Uncommon Light of Memory (Pause, Reprieve, Exhale)

Dear Afraid of Cringing: Can Something Be And Not Be At The Same Time?

Best of the Net Flash Sale!

Eleven Urgent & Possibly Helpful Things I Have Learned About Writing From Reading Thousands of Manuscripts

Nine Big Lessons My Fearful Puppy Taught Me About Writing

Pulling Threads, Making Clay

Dear Nothing New: It's All About The Wanting

Tension and Shape: How Incongruous Things Press Against Each Other to Make Meaning

Dear Too Late: You Are Worth So Much More Than Your Manuscript

How do we reveal truths that those more powerful than us want to suppress?

The Magic of Radical Failure

Dear Why Bother: Yes, You Should Finish Your Book Even if The World Is Ending

95% Percent of Our Thoughts Are Repetitive ... But We Can Change That

Looking For The Answer Inside Your Question

Dear This is Weird: Why Staring Directly At The World Hurts Us … But Also Saves Us (And Transforms Our Writing)

Essay in 12 Steps Chat

Attention is the Beginning of Devotion

The Things Themselves, Alive With Metaphor

Our First Essay Challenge Begins Tomorrow!

Dear Flat: To Have Lived (And Suffered) Is Not Enough

"I remember Dorothy Allison telling me, 'This is going to be hard for you. It's going to hurt you, hurt your health.' And she was right ..."

The Feeling of (Highly Specific) Things

Dear Faker: Writing is Supposed To Be Hard ...

How To Memorize Your Heart's Subtle Voice

Dear Dried Up: Join Me in Perpetual Chasing & Holy Gratitude

Starting Soon, Writing in the Dark's "Essay in 12 Steps" Challenge!

To Have, Give All to All, or What It Means to Write (& Live) Generously

Dear Asshole: That Way Madness Lies

Writing in the Dark's First "Essay in 12 Steps" Challenge

That's Marvelous, Could I Do It?

Dear Tired: The Self Will Not Be Forced Under

Source Waters

Dear Scared to Feel Too Much: Sometimes, Writing Saves Us

Lessons from an Unsuspecting Bestseller

Wants, Met and Unmet

Dear Stuck: What Are We So Afraid Of?

Kazuo Ishiguro Wrote REMAINS OF THE DAY in Four Weeks & Now I Understand How He Did It

Choose Your Own Adventure

Two Truths and a Lie

How to Speed Without Crashing—Or, The Art of the Truly Breathless Scene

Is It True That Anyone Can Write?

Everything is blooming most recklessly; if it were voices instead of colours, there would be an unbelievable shrieking into the heart of the night. ~Rilke

We Did Not See A Fox

"THE COST": A Flash Sale On Annual Subscriptions

The Moment After Which Everything Changed

In Celebration of Un-Silencing

The Scariest Thing I've Ever Written

Holding Wonder Like a Cup

The Theme Was Inspiration (Or Why I Cannot Remember Prom)

A wonderful thing about true laughter is that it just destroys any kind of system of dividing people. Laughter is the best creative medicine. ~John Cleese

Music was my refuge. I could crawl into the space between the notes and curl my back to loneliness ~ Maya Angelou

The Fairy Tale as Inner Threshold

Creativity is seeing what others see and thinking what no one else ever thought. ~Albert Einstein

“I need rituals that encourage me to embrace what is repetitive, ancient, and quiet.” ― Tish Harrison Warren, Liturgy of the Ordinary: Sacred Practices in Everyday Life

What I’ve used [the cut-up technique] for ... is igniting anything that might be in my imagination. It can often come up with very interesting attitudes to look into. ~David Bowie

Unused creativity isn't benign. It lives within us until it’s expressed, neglected to death, or suffocated by resentment and fear. ~Brene Brown

Writing is “based in a craving to get through the curtains of things as they appear, to things as they are, and then into the larger, wilder space of things as they are becoming.” ~May Swenson

Ask the world to reveal its quietude ... the true quiet by which birdsongs, trees, bellworts, snails, clouds, storms become what they are, and are nothing else. ~Wendell Berry

Nothing, not one thing, hurts us more — or causes us to hurt others more — than our certainties. ~Maria Popova

Appreciation is a wonderful thing: It makes what is excellent in others belong to us as well. ~Voltaire

Sleeping Birds

Or maybe it was more like the development of a delight muscle. Something that implied that the more you study delight, the more delight there was to study. ~Ross Gay

The Fictive Dream

Intuition is perception via the unconscious that brings forth ideas, images, new possibilities, and ways out of blocked situations. ~Carl Jung

To create today is to create dangerously…. The question, for all those who cannot live without art and what it signifies, is ... how ... the strange liberty of creation is possible. ~Albert Camus

Just being an ordinary observer and liver and feeler and letting the experience get through you onto the notebook ... through the arm, out of the body, onto the page, without distortion. ~Sharon Olds

The nitrogen in our DNA, the calcium in our teeth, the iron in our blood, the carbon in our apple pies were made in the interiors of collapsing stars. We are made of starstuff. — Carl Sagan, Cosmos

The ... role of the artist ... is to illuminate that darkness, blaze roads through that vast forest ... to make the world a more human dwelling place. ~James Baldwin

I Made the Leap to Notes!

Does the power of language lie only in its meanings ... or do its forms & movements work deeper magic? Children have a sense for such possibilities—a sense which adults have lost. ~Paul Matthews

I prefer drawing to talking. Drawing is faster, and leaves less room for lies. – Le Corbusier

My Story + The World's Words

The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams. ~Eleanor Roosevelt

I want the word death. I want the word God. I also want peonies and the color blue. The words are growing in the field ... like flowers, and I pick the ones I like. ~Mary Ruefle

Gertrude Stein was particularly inspired by the traffic on busy Parisian streets. Automobiles stopped and started with a rhythm that thrummed right into her prose. ~Celia Blue Johnson

The distinction between the past, present, and future is only a stubbornly persistent illusion. The only reason for time is so that everything doesn't happen at once. ~Albert Einstein

Live the questions now. Perhaps then, someday far in the future, you will gradually, without even noticing it, live your way into the answer. ~Rainer Maria Rilke, Letters To A Young Poet

A collage can be made of found objects, or a combination of objects and the artist's own drawing. [Writers] perform a similar act ... [with] scattered pieces of language. ~Heath Guide to Literature

The stories we tell ourselves hold tremendous power over who we become and how we live. The least we can do is be conscious of them.

In the midst of our word play we might stand before a creative risk, a jeopardy, to be faced directly or shied away from … where the game requires quite another level of meaning. ~Paul Matthews

Chords and Cacophonies

The pieces (and only the pieces) ... begin the creative process for me. And the process by which the recollections of these pieces coalesce ... is creation. ~Toni Morrison

The Surprising Sound of Mary Oliver's Voice

Conjure the nouns, alert the secret self, taste the darkness … speak softly, and write any old word that wants to jump out of your nerves onto the page. ~Ray Bradbury

You listen for a story in the way a broom sweeps across a floor or the way thin chords of rain strike a window. ~Grant Faulkner

Before we can find the answer — before we can even know the question — we must be immersed in disappointment, convinced that a solution is beyond our reach. ~Maria Popova

Pay attention. It's all about paying attention. Attention is vitality. It connects you with others. It makes you eager. Stay eager. ― Susan Sontag

That Little Voice: The Outsized Power of a Child Narrator

Tomorrow! Writing in the Dark's First 30-Day Creativity Challenge Begins!

You Don't Necessarily Sense the Motion

We Can Be Both Torn And Whole

Writing in the Dark’s First 30-Day Creativity Challenge

Tell Me About Cars, Yours, And I Will Tell You Mine

Family Matters: The Ethics, Challenges & Rewards of Writing About Family

Letter to My Daughter on Her Seventh Birthday

Making Art from Your Life

Raptor With A Broken Wing

AWP Flash Sale!

Writing Prompt: The Surprising Power of Slowing (& Even Stopping) Time

The Part That Burns

Why Creativity Breaks Our Hearts

The Paper Route: A Lesson in Letting Go

All Flesh is Proud of Its Wounds

Why I Write: The Unvarnished Truth

Of Heat & Need & What it Takes

How to Actually Become a Better Writer

Lying Our Way to Truer Truths

You know those morning when you wake up and it’s not perfect?

How to Be a Writer

Happy, Happy, Happy

Hopelessly Entangled in Stars

Drenched in Thoughts of Place

Unspooling Our Way to the Truth

Writing Prompt: Break the Mirror

Judith Guest talks about “the terror of chance,” taking what you want, manufacturing religion, the problem with Republicans ... and how a 40-year-old author with three kids and no agent made it big

Happy is Boring

An Exacting Tool For Finding Your Story's Aboutness

Louise Erdrich On Writer's Self Doubt, Exhaustion, Motherhood & War

Match Strike

The One (and Only) Technique That Finally Helped Me Write About Trauma